You must have the desire to awaken to your True-self
This specific option is only for those who are seeking True-self Realisation, even if it is your first experience you must have the desire to awaken to your True-self. The biggest obstacle to awakening to your Divine True-self is that living life in a non-dual way means stopping all spiritual practices.
The spiritual seeker has cultivated spiritual practices which have brought experiences of beautiful life states of consciousness and love. The point comes when 'the person in relation to spiritual practices' has to be surrendered to become one with all that is. The fear and resistance is in this final letting go.
Let me assure you that nothing you have experienced or obtained as a person in relationship with those practices will be lost, in fact they will be activated when required without you doing anything when the time is right in your daily life. The difference is that you are unable to decide when they are required.
Example of Living from the Divine True-self not the person
To give an example I recently stayed at a guest house. The host was interested in spiritual matters and we chatted for a couple of hours together. She mentioned she had a problem with her shoulder which had been in constant pain for about a month.
In the past as a Reiki Master I would have offered her healing but now I did nothing just listened.
All of a sudden I sensed a feeling in my shoulder and mentioned it to her and she replied she was aware of energy pouring into her. At that moment I had a knowingness arise and shared it with her, "The pain in your shoulder is due to a relationship issue which you have to sort out inside of you, not the other." She was amazed because she said that the man she was involved with was about to arrive and yes there was an issue. After my visit I had a thank you message from her to share that she was free from pain and everything had been resolved.